So it’s better to put shyness to the side, and using a particular slang language in the bedroom during role-playing can become an important part of submissive behavior in a D/S relationship. As a sub, you can address your partner with a respectful pronoun (such as “sir” or “ma’am”) to show that they are in control, or you can tell your Dom that they are in control. Use rough-abusive language during sex.

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