“Moaning is super sexy and it shows that it’s a positive experience,” says Engle. “People want to feel like they’re doing a good job in bed. It’s highly erotic to hear confirmation.” (Shout out to all my peeps out there who could basically orgasm just from hearing someone else’s pleasure.)
If you want to moan during an intimate moment, allow yourself to let out a gasp or a low “mmmm” when your partner touches you in a way that feels good. As things get more intense, moan longer and don’t be afraid to lose control if it feels natural. After all, fake moaning will probably seem obvious to your partner and might make them feel bad. There’s no wrong or right way to moan, but if you want to practice, start by sighing softly and breathing loudly. As your breathing intensifies, make an “uhh” sound every time you breathe in. To sound extra seductive, add in a few “mmmmm”s in a sexy, seductive tone to make it clear that you’re enjoying it.