You can do a lot with your finger besides inserting it all the way into an asshole. While 31% of our survey-takers involve external anal play in how they have lesbian sex, 20% of lesbians also indicated that they regularly participated in “rimming” (oral anal play), aka .

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The study, published in , consisted of two parts. First, they asked gay, lesbian, and bisexual participants which sexual acts (i.e 69ing, penetrative sex, anal sex, rimming, blow jobs, rubbing of genitals, etc.) they actually count as “sex.” In other words, when they go to brunch with their friends the next morning, what would they have to do to call it “sex” when they’re filling them in on the deets? Read below and see what exactly “sex” means to people who sleep with men and to those who sleep with women.
How do lesbians have sex? Lesbians and the people who have sex with lesbians or who consider themselves lesbian-adjacent have sex in so many different ways, and believe it or not, we’re up to quite a bit more than just scissoring. So we went ahead and asked over 13k+ queer women, “which of these activities has been a regular part of your sex life within the last year?” and now we’ve got the answers!
Dildos, chosen by 55% of our readers as a regular part of their lesbian sex life, are most often used with strap-ons, although we didn’t differentiate in the survey which may have led to confusing answers. according to our lesbian sex experts. There are . Dildos come in all shapes, styles (like the ), sizes (including ““), and materials — , , , — many designed for stand-alone usage and many designed specifically for being used with a harness.



















